Showing intimacy without being sexual is one of the more important things you can do to keep your relationship healthy. While a shower may lead to something more hot and heavy, do it with the intentions of just to be closer to her. Be playful together, and show you love and appreciate her body for more than just sexy time.
One of the most common traps couples fall into is showing intimacy only with sex. Your girl wants to know she's close to you in other ways than pleasuring each other, and that you see her as more than just a sexual object. To keep the thinking clear, shower together for intimacy, not just for sex. Sure it may lead to something more stimulating but approach the situation as a way to be closer to her and show you love her body first and foremost.
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